Bride Top Tips 2012

Today I would like to introduce you to Jan and Malcolm Emery who were married on the 11th June last year at Beaulieu in Hampshire. To see their Hampshire wedding story here on our blog, please click the following link – Beaulieu Wedding

 

Here is Jan…

Hi Courtenay

Our favourite picture is this one….

hampshire wedding venue

 

Malc and I chose The Domus at the Beaulieu National Motor Museum as our wedding venue because as a child my family used to vacation in the New Forest and visited the museum
several times so it held special memories for me and I was grateful that my fiance Malc fully accepted and understood that.  It also resonated with us because we both have a keen interest in classic cars and architecture, and the buildings at this venue really lend themselves to being captured on film creating some beautiful shots. However, it was one of the final shots that Courtenay took, at the end of the day, when we had left Beaulieu and moved to Bucklers Hard to be alone for a while, which really caught our eye because it is so striking.  Produced in black and white, and composed with us as a couple on the far right of the shot and a yacht on the far left with the estuary in the background really is beautiful.  But for me, the
image does more than that.  For me, it evokes happy memories of my childhood spent sailing around the Solent with my father, who passed away in 2005. This image in one glance really does remind us of our special day and shows us sharing our love for one another for just one tiny moment as our new life together begins.

Our three top tips:
1) Decide on your budget then add 10% for contingency – planning a wedding is not an exact science but nor is it a free license to over-spend.  However it is always a good idea to have a back-up portion of money to allow you some flexibility.
2) Ensure you get a good balance of what you as a couple want from the day and what you want to provide for your guests.  It’s easy to worry too much about everyone else and not enough about yourselves. Equally, neglecting your guests and their desire to feel part of your special day would be a bad thing.
3) Arrange your wedding day so that you can take time-out as a couple, even if it’s just for 10 minutes every few hours or so.  Just taking a moment to say I Love You and sharing a kiss in peace and quiet away from everything happening around you acts as a reminder that it’s not about ‘the day’ so much, it’s perhaps more about being married to one another and looking forward to sharing your life with them.

 

Best wishes

Jan and Malc

 

Dorset Wedding Photographer- Courtenay Photographic Ltd

Happy Valentines Day

Happy Valentines Day

Love, heart

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Riot Raffle…a great cause…& some very lovely stuff you could win!

Good morning all :-) I hope you had a lovely weekend.

Today I would like to introduce you to one of my very lovely Twitter friends who has started something quite remarkable, something good, something very worthwhile, something you can help with and benefit from at the same time!

I’m not going to say any more, instead I’m going to hand you over to the very lovely Zoe Grant from Zoeanddrew

 

How it all began
After watching the news and seeing the destruction on the streets of our capital city on the night of Monday 8 August much of country was left in shock. On the Tuesday morning I checked with friends in London, many I had made through Twitter, that they were safe, some witnessing first hand the mindless vandalism of their communities. I read tweets from Riotcleanup who were busy rallying support to reclaim their city and start the massive clean up. People flocked to help, armed with brooms, determined to help.
Feeling helpless as I do not live close enough to pop along and help and realising I wasn’t the only person feeling this way I had an idea of a raffle. With a large network of designer makers, artists and creative people I hoped they would support my idea. So I wrote a blogpost and tweeted the link and offers started to come in. With in 18 hours over 30 independent businesses had offered prizes and fully supported my idea. We now had a twitter hashtag and through our social media networks word spread and more support and prizes were offered.
The next step was to find a charity to support. As small business owners we wanted the money raised to help the many shopkeepers who had lost their businesses or had their shops looted and damaged in the riots. The Retail Trust seemed like the perfect choice and after speaking with them I was assured that 100% of our donation would be used to help these shopkeepers and not the big retail chains who could afford to rebuild and restock.
Now the planning had to be done. Riot Raffle was becoming a major fundraiser for the victims of the riots throughout our cities. Again the power of twitter stepped in and Zoe Brown , Managing Director of B Websites, offered to help. B Websites have built this website, organised the hosting and purchase of the domain name, aswell as making the template available to be downloaded and used by other people when they make a donation to Riot Raffle.
So we had a website, we had prizes, we now needed a logo. There were lots of suggestions of design companies and one clearly stuck out, Who Ate My Crayons. Tia, the designer behind Who Ate My Crayons, is popular within the twitter design community and has created badges for several #sbs winners in Theo Paphitis’s weekly selection of small businesses to retweet.
Riot Raffle is about a creative community coming together to support other independent businesses in a time of crisis. Today we have over 80 independent businesses donating prizes for Riot Raffle. We hope that you will support us in raising a lot of money to help Retail Trust assist the many shopkeepers who were victims of the riots and buy a ticket, or ten!

For further information :
Visit the Riot Raffle website www.riotraffle.org or contact Zoe Grant by email zoeanddrew@btinternet.com or telephone 07825 627805

Thank you.
Zoe Grant

 

Here are just a couple of the lovely raffle prizes on offer that might entice one or two of our lovely Brides to be, to buy a ticket or two. Alternatively, if you feel you can donate to this cause by giving of a prize that would also be very gratefully received, please drop Zoe a line, I know she will be very pleased and grateful to hear from you.

 

100 cupcakes donated by Coco Meli Artisan Bakers in the West Midlands.
The winner will need to be in the West Midlands and the prize can be claimed for any occassion in 2011 or 2012.
http://www.riotraffle.org/2011/08/prize-100-cupcakes-coco-meli-artisan-bakers/

 

£200 voucher for Hargate Hall
This can be used towards the cost of a wedding or would cover the cost of a one bedroom apartment off season, perfect for a pre wedding break or honeymoon.
http://www.riotraffle.org/2011/08/prize-200-voucher-for-hargate-hall-hargate-hall/

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So…there you have it, please support this worthwhile cause if you can, either by donateing or buy buying a few hundred tickets or so ;-) Seriously though your participation however small would be much appreciated and you might also win someting fab too! :-)

Thanks

Best wishes

Courtenay

 

Dorset Wedding Photoggrapher - Courtenay Photographic Ltd

Kiss Me


How Cute :-)

 

 

 

 

Dorset Wedding Photographer – Courtenay Photographic Ltd

Investing in Your Investment

When you are planning your wedding, inevitably an enormous amount of thought, time and money goes into the process. Sometimes this means years of planning; and a very large financial commitment.
Eventually, after a lot of research and time on your part you make the final decisions and choose the suppliers you think will help make your big day everything you are hoping for. You pay over those deposits or retaining fees, and there is that feeling of excitement that you are one step closer to the wedding; but also a small twitchy feeling of anxiety. Have you just made the right decision? After all, it’s a big investment, isn’t it?

And that’s the key phrase. You have made ‘an investment’. An investment with a professional, an investment into their skill and expertise; and now you trust them to do an expert job for you.

Investment goes further than your pocket, however – or at least it should. It’s simple, really. Yes, those professionals you have booked will do their job… but wouldn’t it be great if they did more than just that? Go that extra mile, make that extra effort; invest themselves in your wedding day, in YOU; and give you that little something extra in return.

When our couples book with us, we always intend to do just that. We want to get to know our couples, form a relationship so that we can get the very best from them, and give the very best we can in return. It’s lovely, too, to be able to say after the event that the couple have become more than just a client, they have become a friend, hopefully a friend we will see again over the years, just to say hello from time to time, catch up on the new babies and exchange the odd Christmas card.

But let’s turn this on its head for a minute. What if there is no relationship? What if you simply book your professional to do the job… and that’s that? No personal contact, you just pay final fees, check Wedding Day details and expect them to turn up and do what you have paid them to do. Well that should be ok; you have taken your time to choose and hire professionals, and as such they should perform accordingly.

But because you haven’t made an investment in them, taken the trouble to get to know them a little – why should they in return invest in you, get to know you and your personal desires for this special day you re planning? After all they are just the hired help, aren’t they?

If you want to get the very best from your suppliers (and after all your research, you paid good money for the best you could find, yes? So why wouldn’t you want the best they can give you) then simply invest in them. Just a little. Take an interest in what they do; read their blog, catch up on facebook from time to time. Above all discuss your plans, your dreams – make them feel part of your big day, not just someone who is performing a functional service.

You will be surprised at just how much more fun they are to be around, what an incredible store of knowledge they have for you to draw on, and how often you notice them doing just that little bit more than you expected.

Oh, and above all – don’t forget to say a quick thank you when the dust has settled and you have time to reflect. And if they don’t deserve a thank you? Well, be sure to tell them that too!

If your a client of ours or even if you aren’t, come and chat to us on

or even on ….

We would be very pleased to see you there :-)

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Combe House Gittisham Devon Wedding of Lisa & Ben

You can now view Lisa & Ben’s Combe House Wedding Album over on the Main Wedding Photography site if you click here!

Last Sunday I went back to the fabulous Combe House in Gittisham Devon for the wedding of Lisa and Ben. This time my happy couple got married in the lovely church of St Michaels actually in the village of Gittisham and their guests were transported two and fro from Combe House to the church in a lovely vintage double decker bus.

The weather could have been kinder during the day, we had some very heavy blustery showers, however this didn’t stop us getting outside for the few formals and some romantic shots of Lisa and Ben in the Gardens of Combe. Later however just as everyone was entering the Marquee (which was fabulously dressed from Lisa’s inspiration as you will see in some of the pictures below) for the wedding breakfast, the skies finally cleared and we were left with beautiful late summer sunshine, which turned into a fabulous sunset and a clear starry night.

A wonderful relaxing day full of laughter and fun ended with dancing in the great hall.

Congratulations Lisa and Ben I wish you all the happiness for the future.

Some pictures from the day…

Wedding Photographer Dorset – Courtenay Photographic

1st Wedding Anniversary Congratulations

A very happy anniversary to Dan and Becky Brown who celebrate their first year as a married couple. Dan and Becky were married at St Luke’s Church in Burton and then went on to Parley manor for their reception. As I remember their wedding day was quite a wet one early on, but cleared up for the evening do.

I hope you have a sunny day today to celebrate guys, wishing you a day full of very happy memories.

Courtenay

x

(Dan & Becky having a little quiet moment at Parley Manor 1st August 2009)

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