Recently Engaed Couples tell their story…

Here is another lovely story of a newly engaged couple, who have entered our fab Valentines Competition! Sharing her story with us today is Michelle….

 

So..!! in March last year I had almost given up hope of meeting Mr Wright – there were certainly plenty of Mr Wrongs, Mr Not rights nows and dozens of Mr your so not right its wrong! After a pretty heavy weekend on the tiles I decided to go and meet a bunch of mates for a late sunday nightcap… dressed it on old baggy tea-stained jumper, hair scraped back and black mascara smudged over my face I was not a pretty site to say the least as I melted into the comfy leather sofa and pulled out the Sunday papers..

Then along came Jack. He was so good-looking I went the same crimson shade as my half-chipped nail polish.. Tall, rugged and hansom, my prince charming, the man I had been waiting for my whole life, strolled into the pub the minute I turn up like i should be one of the ugly sisters scrubbing the floor!  Disaster – they say you make your mind up in 3 seconds – well I thought it would be a one micro-second look at me and he would be off.. as i hid behind my broadsheet I realised i was going to have to speak to him, he had plonked his cute little butt right next to me!

I took a deep breath, pretended I looked like Angelina Jolie and charmed his pants off – some say I put a ‘shell spell’ on him and spiked his drink but there is no evidence to prove that…

So we exchanged numbers and I should have been over the moon.. small problem, I work in motorsports and was off in four days for 6 very long weeks – to the other side of the world! Dam it! I told him, you better ask me out quick because I’m off soon! subtle was never my strong point! and we spent the next four blissful days together before I flew to Melbourne…

Writing about it now it sounds crazy, but after two weeks, daily emails and phone calls, I missed him so much I asked him, half joking, to come and meet me.. and he did!! We met on a beach in Thailand exactly one month after we met – it was our fifth date!

After a blissful two weeks in paradise, we returned home to the UK, got a place together and have never been apart since! After what can only be described as a magical Xmas Jack whisked me off to New York. After an afternoon strolling round central park on New Years Eve and a trip to the Zoo, he made me climb on to this huge rock, called childrens mountain, and whilst I thought I was standing there to have my picture taken like a numpty, Jack dropped to one knee and pulled out a dazzler of a diamond and asked me to be his wife.

YES, YES, YES!!! I know its quick but not one person has ever questioned it, they say we were made for each other. I love Jack with all my heart and he really makes me the happiest girl in the world and also….. he still loves me in my joggers and tea-stained jumper!

Another fab enagement story, thanks so much for sharing Michelle and good luck with the competition.

What about you?…You still have a chance, there is still time to enter our fab competition, just click the following link and fill in the form, it couldn’t be easier than that- Valentine Competition


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Bride Top Tips 2012

Today’ top tips come from Jessica and Daniel who got married at Dartington Hall in Devon on 4th June. To see their wedding story on our blog, click the following link – Devon Wedding

 

Hi Courtenay

My favourite picture is this one

dartington hall devon wedding venue

 

But Dan would choose this one…

 

dartington hall devon wedding venue

A bit cheeky to have two I know! ;-)

Our Three Top Tips are…

* Find and book your wedding photographer as early as possible to get the one you want as they do seem to get booked up surprisingly quickly. The wedding photos are what you are left with so it is important to have well captured memories you can look back on.

* Have a wedding book/diary so that everything is together which makes planning/organising much easier.

* Talk to lots of people that have already had their wedding and ask them if there was anything they would have done differently. Its also useful talking to others to get  ideas on things like table plans and favours, the best ideas are often ones pinched!

Cheers
Jess  & Dan

More top tips to follow shortly…

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Recently Engaged couples tell their story

Continuing with our current theme of recently engaged couples here is another lovely story, this time from Julie…

 

 

Where did I propose?
On Christmas Day in my slippers and jamas, just before we had to set off to Swindon to visit Steve’s mum in hospital, which is where we spent most of Christmas Day…. His mum is very poorly so it made a lovely christmas pressie for her too…It was the best xmas gift.

What did he say?
He say….Yay!   and was very emotional and a tear slid into the tea and toast…
The dog looked pleased, the cat didnt look that bothered, but we were very very happy !

Why did I propose?
I proposed as we have been together for nearly 3 years. We met on match.com, after many trials and tribulations (on my part) – I was about to give up after meeting too many strange and wacky characters, dare I mention ‘Goldfish Man’ ‘Mystery Man’ ‘Hunts Man’ ‘I have no Hair Now Man’ ‘Im actually 20 years older Man’ ‘I have a porsche Man’ (but saw him ride off on a bicycle !) and so the sad list went on..  I was about to hang up the mouse and never brave the dating sites again but decided one last try, I saw Steve (and thought now he looks nice and normal) and so I made the first mouse move !  We met, I took him on a tour of 4 bedfordshire pubs and chattered all evening, so was very pleasantly surprised when he asked if he could see me again!  I was pleased that he had his own hair, teeth and hadnt lied about his age.

We had both been through some very rufty tufty times and once Steve had decided he could put up with my snoring and peculiar Aquarian compulsiveness and arty traits, we moved into our first house together (which we found on the internet, and a dog and a cat, so we were all happily rehomed together!)
Romance is not dead
I like to surprise and have done during our relationship. A candlelit dinner in a windmill, a trip to Wales fungi foraging, were lovely things to do together, something we both hadnt done in a very very long time.
To find love again in your (cough) late 40s/early 50s is a wonderful thing and I would recommend it (once you get past the first hurdle of ‘mistakes’ on internet dating!) to anyone…Our journey is still exciting.

Getting through it together
Steve’s mum has terminal cancer and hasnt very long left and sadly wont make our wedding in September, but the best gift we have given her is that she knows I will make her son so very happy and I think that has made things a little easier…and made us stronger.

Our wedding
Being on a vintage budget, we decided to go for a Vintage tea wedding so am getting hitched on 15 Sept in Old Warden on the day of the Bedfordshire Steam and Country Fayre, so Im hoping that we will get some interesting photos!  Im also collecting ebay tea sets (we will ignore the one i thought was a bargain – it was for a dolls house!) – My wedding car has to be my most favorite car ever, the little retro Figaro. No big roller or bentley for me, the Figaro will add love and a smile to the day!

Through the lens
Here I must confess that apart from my boring day job – I dabble a little bit in photography I love images that evoke emotion, make you smile, think, care and make other people evoke emotion.  But we cannot take our own photos so hence deciding to have a go and enter this comp and Dorset is one of my favorite romantic places – despite being landlocked in Beds!

 

Well Juile that is a great story…I wish you all the best with both the competition and your lovely sounding wedding.

 

What about you?…Come on, there is still time to enter our fab competition, just click the following link and fill in the form, it couldn’t be easier than that- Valentine Competition

 

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Bride Top Tips 2012

Today’s top Tips come from Helen and Simon Stocks who got married on the 1st October at the Fabulous Athelhampton House in Dorset, to see their wedding story, click the following link – Dorset Wedding Venue.

 

Here is Helen & Simon….

 

Picture-wise, I love this one….

Athelhampton House dorset wedding venue

- but it’s a really hard choice, as you captured the somewhat whimsical nature of the day in so many pictures! However, I chose this one as I adore the drama and romance, as well as potentially one of the few times I wasn’t giggling or Simon lunging whilst in his kilt.

As to my top 3 bridal tips:

1. Don’t be afraid to be a geek: As a project manager, I am regularly referred to as a “spreadsheet jockey” by the adorable scientists I work with. So I guess it was inevitable that we would have a spreadsheet for the wedding – but I cannot tell you how invaluable it was! Sharing the document between the two of us, it was an indispensable tool to keep supplier contact details, breakdown the budget (as well as highlighting when Simon overspent) and keep tabs on who had sent an RSVP as well as where they would be staying. Having all of the information in one easy to access place that can be backed up took a weight off my mind.

2. If you have an artistic side, use it! Although we had a relatively small wedding, it meant that I could add a personal touch for each place setting. From name cards to velum tealight holders, favours to the table plan and card box: I made them all. There are countless blogs and forums scattered across the internet that are full of hints, tips and inspiration. It means that you can create exactly what you want for a fraction of the price of buying it. If you don’t have time to do it all yourself, call the girls and bribe them with wine for an evening of fabric, ribbons and PVA glue.

3. Keep calm and carry on: On our big day, people were surprised by just how zen-like I was. My theory? If it hasn’t been done, it’s too late and nothing can change that. If something is starting to go wrong, you are surrounded by friends and family who love you and will try their hardest to avert disaster. Just go with the flow and enjoy what will inevitably be the most memorable, and wonderful, day of your life :)

All our best,

Helen and Simon.

 

More top tips coming very soon!…


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Recently Engaged couples tell their story….

So a few weeks ago, I posted a competition on here for recently enaged couples to win a fab night out on us at the restaurant of their choice coupled with a free engagemnet photo shoot with me…all in time for and to coincide with Valentines Day! I also promised to post a few of their stories on here and becasue I never break my promises, here is a lovely story from Jemma….

 

Well it’s a long story starting with broken bones and finishing with the beginning of our lives together.

Rob and I celebrate our ‘anniversay’ by remembering and celebrating our 1st date on the 3rd December 2008. Rob very kindly arranges a weekend away in London every year. When we met Rob was living in London and has worked at Buckingham Palace for the last 8 years. So the those first 6 months of our relationship that are so magical were spent mainly in London. It holds such special memories like the crossing outside Hyde Park where we first held hands. London we say is ‘our’ city where we can while away the hours and lose ourselves in he city and our relationship. So December 2011 was fast approaching and Rob had mentioned planning the weekend away, but that was all.

We were invited to dinner with my Brother and his long term girlfriend (12 years and counting!). After dinner they suprised us with an announcement of pregnancy of course much emotion and celebrations followed.
The following Sunday my brother who has recently set up his own business was badly tackled in a football match which resulted in both his legs being broken! His football team rallied behind him and arranged a huge benefit event to raise funds for him and Hollie. The date picked  for the event 3rd December 2011 our anniversary date. When I heard the date I contacted Rob and he said of course we need to be there for him, he would rearrange our weekend away and to be honest I never thought about it again.

Our weekend away was moved to the 9th December and it quickly arrived. We travelled into London by car and when we were close Rob asked if I recognised the area, which I did, Luttle Venice and it clicked that we would be staying in The Collanade. We had stayed in the Collanade dbefore on our anniversary and ha fallen in love with the warmth of the place.

When we arrived at our room I was overwhelmed to see it was a suite with double height windows overlooking our London. I knew we were going for dinner so we started to get ready.

Once ready we headed to the tube, Rob informed me we were running a bit late so when we hopped off the tube, Rob suggested he ran ahead to make sure we didn’t miss our table. But he wouldn’t tell me where we were going. So off he ran and I followed on heels slowly! Once  a little out of sight he called and asked if I could see the London Eye which I could he told me to make my way toward it . I arrived at the Eye where he met me with a cuddle and told me we are going on the Eye before dinner as a little present. I was over the moon, I have never been on it before and to see our city with Rob who almost knows every inch would be amazing.
I went to join the queue and Rob pulled me to the side and said don’t worry we have out own pod! Jamie our host led us on and popped open a bottle of champagne, he also gave us some beautiful truffles and for me a stunning winter bouquet.

Being in the pod with Rob the atmosphere was amazing and definitely a little electric. When we reached the very top Jamie suddenly prompted “Mr.Palmer we are at the very top”. Rob turned to me and asked ‘do you know why we are alone?’. I answered with a cautious no and he said “because I have a question to ask you”, bent down on one knee and said “will you marry me”!!!

I burst into tears and the next 20 minutes was a blur of tears, photos, cheers and clapping from the pods either side, and also tears from our host Jamie.
When we reached the ground we were met with raucous cheers and many people coming over to congratulate us and see the ring. I felt like all my dreams had come true. To be engaged to Rob is everything I could ever wish for except to be the mother of his children. He really does complete me and I never met such an amazing, inspirational person who makes me a better person.
Of course there were lots of phone calls to make so on the way to the restaurant I think I called almost every single person I know. My mum and dad were expecting my call as Rob had already been to ask and it was incredibly emotional. Robs mum and sister who have become like my family already were also tearful and overjoyed.

The restaurant The Ledbury was amazing, the staff had been informed by Rob and were the most welcoming and helpful you can imagine. We got to meet the Head Chef who signed our Menus and that was the icing on the cake.

To be honest if Rob had rolled over in bed one day and asked me to marry him I would have felt exactly the same, I feel like it was meant to be. We were meant for each other and now we are planning our next step in our life, our Marriage.

Engagement in the London Eye Taken in The London Eye just after Rob Had proposed!

Wow, Jemma What a fab story :-) Good luck with the competition.

Best wishes    Courtenay

Now, lets hear your story…there is still time to enter our fab competition, just click the following link and fill in the form, it couldn’t be easier than that- Valentine Competition

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Bride Top Tips 2012!

So, if you are a regular subscriber/reader of our blog feed you will remember that for the last couple of years we have asked the previous season’s Brides and Groom’s to provide us with their Top Tips on planning a wedding for the coming seasons couples. Whilst giving us all a little insight into their thoughts and idea’s we also asked them to pick their favourite picture(s) from their wedding day and say what it meant to them. As an extra incentive we have also offered a stunning 12?x18? canvas which will go to the “Top, Top Tipster” of the year, so we wish all of our participating couples the very best of luck and thank them for joining in.

If you would like to look back at some of the previous Top Tips click on each of the following links:

2010 Bride Top Tips

2008 Bride Top Tips

2009 Bride Top Tips

So, keep an eye out on the Blog over the next few weeks for some great wedding planning tips from our 2011 couples, you never know the answer to your question may be out there!!

Have fun :-)   Courtenay

 

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Happy Birthday!

And yet another Birthday in our house, this time its the turn of my eldest Cameron who proudly enters his teens today!

 

Teenage Birthday

 

Happy Birthday Cam

Hope you have a brilliant day.

Lots of Love

Dad

xx

 

 

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