Real Bride Top Wedding Tips

Today’s top Wedding Tips and favourite picture comes from Husna and Oli Grimes.

Husna and Oli were married on the 23rd January 2010 at All Saints Church in Lullington and then went on to Orchardleigh House in Somerset for their reception. To see their Somerset wedding story visit our blog and to see their Somerset Wedding Album visit our Wedding Venues page.

Here is Husna and Oli….

Hi Courtenay

Our favourite photo has to be this one

We absolutely love this photo because it captures those few seconds that we were alone together for the very first time as a married couple. When we look at the photo, we can remember exactly how we felt at that time (on the verge of hypothermia in my case!) and what we were saying to each other. The shot also captures the gorgeous venue in the background which is an added bonus.

A few of our top tips for other brides/grooms planning their wedding are as follows:

1. Don’t fight over the guest list! Choosing who to invite can be a source of real stress and tension between the two of you and everyone has their own opinion (especially parents!).  Our advice would be to invite the people you actually want to spend the day with, not necessarily those you feel you should invite. There will always be disagreements here, but try not to let them ruin the wedding before its even started.

2. Have as many bridesmaids (and best men!) as possible – no, seriously!  I had seven bridesmaids (and Oli had 3 best men).  You need all the help you can get on the big day and, as no-one likes a drunk bride, someone needs to drink all that champagne in the morning!

3. And finally…Get yourself a decent band and / or DJ.  No matter how good the day has been up to that point, if the music isn’t up to scratch the dance floor will be deserted.  Also, make sure you discuss set lists to avoid any unwanted surprises!

Hope this helps.  Just remember to have fun and learn to love those “to-do” lists!

All the very best,

Husna & Oli

Courtenay Photographic – Wedding Photographers in Dorset

1st Wedding Anniversary Congratulations

Big congratulations go out today to Husna and Oli Grimes who were married a year ago today at the fab Orchardleigh House in Somerset.

To see their Somerset Wedding story visit our blog and to view their wedding album visit our Somerset wedding Venues page.

Congratulations once again Husna and Oli, I hope you have a wonderful day and your wedding album brings back many happy memories.

Love and Best wishes

Courtenay x

(Husna and Oli enjoying a little quiet time at Orchardleigh House 23rd January 2010)
Dorset Wedding photographer – Courtenay Photographic

Orchardleigh House Somerset Wedding of Husna & Oliver

(You can now view Husna & Oli’s Orchardleigh House Wedding album over on the main wedding photography site if you click here.)

So, a cold but dry morning and I’m off to Orchardleigh House near Frome in Somerset for the wedding of Husna and Oliver. To be honest I’m feeling pretty awful today (got this heavy virus coldy thingy?), but well dosed up and more medicinal supplies pocketed to keep me going throughout the day, I should be ok.
I arrive nice and early to find Husna and Oliver nicely tucked away in two of the estate cottages the Garden House and The Clock Tower (Orchardleigh really have done a good job with these extra accommodations). Then it’s off to the main House and up to the Bonita suite to cover Husna’s getting ready and all the usual pre-wedding preparations.
I catch up with Oliver and the boys downstairs and we have an impromptu photo call, and then it’s off through the Orchardleigh estate to the small village of Lullington to find today’s venue for the ceremony; the lovely All Saints Church.
Soon it is getting busy, guests arriving, the boys now on the scene and Oliver is looking a bit nervous as he patiently waits for his gorgeous Bride. The first car pulls up at the Church gates, and the lovely Bridesmaids embark – all seven of them! Soon its the turn of Husna and she looks simply stunning as she emerges from the car. Down to the church doors, with her entourage and Mum who is giving her away. Husna, a little nervous now, is soon inside and down the aisle to her waiting man. A lovely touching ceremony and it’s back out into the winter air, Mr and Mrs Grimes at last!
Back to the house to catch a warm drink and something to nibble on. We arrive well ahead of the guests who are being bussed back in two or three lots, so Husna, Oliver and I take this opportunity to slip outside into the gardens of Orchardleigh House for a few quiet moments and to capture some romantic images for the album. Back indoors again, and the house is now thronging with the sound of laughter and cheerful banter. I leave Husna and Oliver to mingle with their guests for an hour or so and just quietly get on with capturing the scene unfolding before me.
Time to pop back outside, very quickly too as it’s quite nippy now, a few family formal pictures and its done – we head back inside to the warm. Time for everyone to take their places for the wedding breakfast and for me to have a little break, oh and pop a few more medicinal drugs (I’m holding up!). Back in for the traditional speeches and then everyone moves out into the large hall and various other rooms whilst the main dining room is readied for the evening entertainment. More guests arriving now to share in the festivities, Husna and Oliver return to the dining room and cut their cake, and soon it’s time for them to head to the dance floor. The room fills with excited friends and family, and Husna and Oliver simply trip the light fantastic – a wonderful first dance, full of character and emotion. Now the band kick in and really rocks the house, the floor fills and serious partying begins.
My time to bid farewell, I made it through (with the help of a few pills here and there) and to be honest I am so glad I did as I wouldn’t have wanted to miss this wonderful wedding, with its lovely hosts and guests, for the world. Congratulations Husna and Oliver, I wish you all the best of everything, have a fab honeymoon.

A few of my favourites from the day

Courtenay Photographic – Dorset Wedding Photographer

Orchardleigh House Somerset Wedding of Emma & Ryan

So a cold and misty morning, I headed off to Orchardleigh House in Somerset. On arrival I went straight upstairs to the Bonita suite to find Emma and her Bridesmaid for the usual Bridal preparations. Then downstairs again and guests now arriving soon to be bused over to St Mary’s Church on the Orchardleigh estate for the wedding ceremony. Having covered the comings and goings from the main house it was my turn to head to the Church and await Emma’s arrival. The Church itself was beautifully lit by candlelight only which gave it a real Christmassy atmosphere, perfect for a winter wedding. Soon it was Emma’s turn to arrive and the ceremony could begin.
Back out into the cold Mr and Mrs Penter, married at last, quickly into the waiting Rolls and Back to the house for some mulled wine and canapes.
Our toastmaster for the day then ushered the guests back outside for a few formal photographs and then Emma, Ryan and I went for a little quiet wander to capture a few romantic images for their album.
Back in the warm again and soon time for the wedding breakfast followed by the traditional speeches. Coffee time, to be taken back in the spacious hall area whilst the main room was turned around ready for the evening reception.
Time to cut the wedding cake, and then the music began. Emma and Ryan took to the dance floor, first dance as man and wife. Our singer and DJ for the evening then notched up the tempo and the dance floor quickly filled.
A very cold day for a wedding, but the atmosphere and love surrounding it I have to say was exceedingly warm; Perfect!

A few of my favourite images from the day -

Courtenay Photographic – Wedding Photographer Dorset